You’ve planned every detail—from the seating chart to the signature cocktail. But when the big day arrives, will you actually enjoy it? As someone who’s photographed hundreds of couples, I’ve got some insider knowledge to share. These LI wedding photographer tips are here to help you feel present, relaxed, and totally in love with your wedding day.
Top LI Wedding Photographer Tips for Enjoying Your Wedding Day
Start by Relaxing – You Deserve to Soak It All In
Easier said than done, right? But here’s the truth: the more relaxed you are, the more radiant, joyful, and you you’ll be. And that makes for the best memories and the best wedding photos.
Here’s how to stay cool:
- Trust your vendors. You hired them for a reason.
- Micromanaging is the enemy of chill. Let your people do their thing.
- Have a backup plan (extra shoes, anyone?), then forget about it.
- Focus on what’s going right—and let the rest roll off your shoulders.
Remember, joy is magnetic. People will vibe off your energy. So pour the mimosa, take a deep breath, and soak it in.
● If you are doing any DIY projects, check and double check everything before the day of your wedding so you don’t have any last minute stress or problems on the day of your wedding.
● The best antidote is simple: Focus on enjoying the day and relaxing as much as possible. Remember that this is one of the most important days of your life — but it’s also one of the happiest. Take delight in everything that is going right instead of focusing on what’s going wrong. As a bonus, by staying relaxed you’ll look more radiant and beautiful than ever before.
2. Stay Present and Let the Magic Happen
Your wedding day will fly by. One minute you’re getting your makeup done, the next you’re dancing under the stars. Don’t miss it by stressing over the timeline.
Instead:
- Take mental snapshots throughout the day.
- Skip traditions that don’t resonate with you.
- Laugh off the little slip-ups (they’ll make great stories later!).
- Be with your partner. Really be with them.
Presence makes everything more meaningful—and honestly, your photos will reflect that kind of magic
The day will go by quickly, especially if you’re busy taking pictures or worrying about all the things that aren’t going right, or even if they are. Staying in the moment means doing exactly what needs to be done at any given time without worrying about anything else. It means not getting caught up in comparing your wedding day to someone else’s because you’re not them and they’re not you.
It means stopping yourself from making snap judgments based on what’s convenient or what seems easiest at that particular time. It means not sweating it when someone spills something on your dress or when your best man forgets to say a line during his toast. It can mean skipping out on a tradition you never liked anyway, like tossing the bouquet or cutting the cake.
Treat your wedding day like you would treat any other event — with confidence and calm. Every wedding is different, and it’s important to go with the flow. Enjoy yourself!
3. Don’t Let the Details Steal Your Joy
Yes, you want every detail to be Pinterest-perfect. But the real magic? That happens when you stop obsessing over the napkin folds and start feeling the moment.
It’s okay if something small goes wrong. It’s okay if Aunt Karen sits in the wrong row. You’re marrying your person—and that’s the point. Lean into the imperfect, because that’s where the real joy lives.
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4. Hire a Photographer You Trust (Hi, That’s Me)
One of the biggest stress relievers? Handing the photo-taking off to a pro. When you’re not worried about capturing every detail yourself—or chasing down Uncle Bob with the DSLR—you’re free to be present, emotional, and real.
Bonus: You’ll get timeless, gorgeous photos to relive it all… without ever lifting a finger.
📸 So if you’re still looking for your dream Long Island wedding photographer, let’s chat!
January 17, 2022
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